Build Human Connection and Rapport

 

In the first step of the Progressive Cycle, we introduce the Respect & Safety Stage. Here is where you start to build Human Connection and Rapport with others.

Respect and Safety are fundamental to conversations and create the first level of comfort and openness.  At this point, you will find that people start to share what’s truly important, the stuff that makes a difference.

I want to encourage you this week to generate that space of Safety & Respect in all your interactions and let me know how it turns out.

Connect to Your Needs

Give yourself a reason to listen: What needs of yours are met by listening?

Connect to Your Feeling

What is it going to feel like when you meet your needs for listening? 
Here is where most people get lost - (Call me to clarify)

WIIFM

What's In It For Me?
Do it for yourself, so you win, and
then take that win to others so they win as well.

Here's to your ongoing success - Martin

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What's The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Relationships?

 

What's The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Relationships?
DEEP DIVE! 

So often people focus on the negative parts of their lives.
I have done that for years so I have a couple things to say about it. 

That way of living has taken it toll on me in so many ways. 

I've had to Reframe the way I was experiencing and looking at the world so I can get what I'm committed to. 

In this show Dylan Stewart and I are going to DEEP DIVE into this topic, watch and see where we go.

Dylan Stewart:
https://www.northstarman.com/
https://www.facebook.com/thenorthstarman/

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