#85 - Undeclared Agreements: The Silent Contracts Running Your Life
Episode #85 – Undeclared Agreements – The Silent Contracts Running Your Life
In this powerful episode, we uncover the hidden forces quietly shaping your choices: Undeclared Agreements.
These are the silent, unwritten contracts you’ve made with yourself—usually without even knowing it. They’re formed in those pivotal moments when life didn’t go your way… moments of disappointment, rejection, failure, or heartbreak. In those vulnerable places, your subconscious steps in and tries to protect you by making silent decisions like:
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“Don’t trust people—they’ll let you down.”
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“If I stay quiet, I won’t cause conflict.”
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“This is as good as it gets, so don’t expect more.”
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“If I take a risk, I’ll just fail again.”
And from that moment on, those beliefs quietly run the show—impacting how you lead, how you love, how you take risks, and how you show up in every area of your life.
These undeclared agreements don’t just affect your mindset—they create predictable patterns in your business, relationships, and even in your internal dialogue. You might feel stuck, but you can’t quite put your finger on why. That’s the power of these agreements—they’re invisible, yet incredibly influential.
In this episode, I’ll show you how to:
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Spot the signs of undeclared agreements in your life
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Identify the patterns you keep repeating
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Take ownership without shame or blame
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And create new, empowering agreements that align with who you really want to be
This isn’t about grinding harder—it’s about leading yourself with clarity, emotional intelligence, and intention. Whether you’re an entrepreneur, a leader, a partner, or someone on a journey of self-mastery, this conversation will hit home.
🧠 Awareness is the first step. Action is what sets you free.
So here’s your challenge for today:
Find just one undeclared agreement that’s been running the show.
Get curious. Reflect. And when you’re ready to make a shift—reach out.
📞 If this episode sparked something in you, let’s talk.
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Please message me directly or book a call and let’s explore what’s possible when you stop living by old, hidden rules… and start creating new ones on purpose.
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Message me directly or book a call and let’s explore what’s possible when you stop living by old, hidden rules… and start creating new ones on purpose.
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🎧 Tune in now. It’s time to lead from the inside out—and take your life to the next level.