#51 - Unlocking the Influence of A Handshake

Episode #51 - Unlocking the Influence of A Handshake: A handshake can determine whether you're seen as a leader or a pushover.

In this episode, I dive into the power of a handshake—something so simple yet deeply influential in shaping how you're perceived.

A great example is referencing a memorable moment from the 2024 Presidential debate where Kamala Harris extended her hand to Donald Trump. This gesture wasn’t just a greeting but a statement of intent, demonstrating how even a handshake can be strategically prepared. And yet, what surrounds the handshake can destroy the message.

A handshake is more than a formality—it’s a powerful move that reveals much about your confidence and leadership.

In this episode, I break down these three types of handshakes:
1. Hand Over (Palm Down): Asserting dominance.
2. Hand Under (Palm Up): Showing submission.
3. Hand Even (Palm Neutral): Signifying mutual respect.

However, the handshake is about more than grip strength; it involves posture, tone, energy, and eye contact.

Lopez points out mistakes Kamala Harris made during her debate handshake—such as approaching too fast and breaking her posture—which illustrated how important it is to be calm, collected, and confident during a handshake.

Key tips from the episode include maintaining eye contact, standing tall, smiling confidently, and being present in the moment. These small gestures amplify your handshake’s impact, making it a greeting and a declaration of intent.

Take control of your next handshake!
When you meet someone today, be intentional—make eye contact, stand tall, and offer a firm, confident handshake that reflects who you are. Don't let this simple gesture go to waste—use it as an opportunity to connect and make a lasting impact. Afterward, reflect on your message and share your experience with me on social media.

Remember, every handshake is a chance to influence and lead—so own the moment!

And when you're ready for more strategies to elevate your performance in life, business, and relationships, you know where to find me!

Until next time, keep striving for greatness!!!

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#51 - Unlocking the Influence of A Handshake

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